Kinky Sex
What is considered kinky sex?
Kinky sex is really just about exploring something outside your usual routine—things that feel exciting, playful, or slightly daring for you and your partner.
Kinky Sex Examples
Face-Sitting
Face-sitting is bound to get both of you extremely turned on. The man lies on his back while the woman straddles him. Her vagina is pressed against his lips, so that she can see his face. The man stimulates her vagina with his tongue and clasps her butt with his hands. The woman is in control and can grind at her own pace. (Kinky Face-Sitting Activity Example from the Box of Burning Desires Game)
Dominant BJ- Power Play Position
If the man likes to dominate, he will love this blowjob position. The woman lies down on her back. The man gets down on all fours above her, with his knees on either side of her head. His penis should be directly above the woman’s mouth. In addition to blowing, the woman can twist both hands along his shaft and brush her thumbs over and around the head. (Kinky Blowjob Activity Example from the Box of Burning Desires Game)
Doggy-style Upgraded
Upgrade the traditional doggy-style position with some adult toys. The woman can hold a vibrating toy to stimulate her clitoris while being in this position. Or she can give the toy to her partner, so he controls her pleasure. (Kinky Dogg-syle Activity Example from the Box of Burning Desires Game)
Spanking or Light Impact Play
If you're feeling naughty, you or your partner take a whip (a belt also works) while the other lies face down, knees bent and butt raised. Start off with soft spanks, but test your limits as you go harder.
Kinky Scenario Example - Remote Vibrating Panties
"We walk into a restaurant. Your hand is in your pocket as you give me a naughty smile. We look like a normal couple, but people don’t know that there is a small vibrator inside my panties and that you have the remote.
As soon as we sit down at our table, you turn the vibrator on and I find it hard to keep a straight face. The waiter brings us our menus and you increase the level slightly. I let out a soft ‘oh’ and blush, wondering if the waiter suspects anything. You turn up the level a little more…
We leave the restaurant in a rush. My panties are soaking wet, but I’m so satisfied.
You’ll be a getting a large tip tonight… "(Kinky Scenario Example from the Box of Burning Desires Game)
Dirty talk
For a kinky twist, introduce dirty talk into your bedroom—and build anticipation by teasing each other even outside of it. Some examples from Dirty Talk guide:
- I'll want to feel your tongue between my legs if you're into it today.
- Lick my tits! / Grab him by his hair and dominate (believe me, we'll love it).
- Your mouth feels incredible… right there
- Do you like tasting me? Enjoy.
- Tell me how much you want to release.
- I want you to take me from behind.
- Satisfy me… let me control your pleasure.
Lick it!
The woman pleasures herself with a vibrator and once in a while she commands her partner to lick it clean. (Activity Example from the Box of Burning Desires Game)
Pegging!
When the Missionary Position gets boring, try reversing it. You'll need a strap-on for this. The man lies down and the woman gently penetrates him, holding onto his legs. This is a really gentle and intimate version of pegging. The man can place a pillow underneath him, if needed. Remember to use a lot of lube. (Activity Example from the Box of Burning Desires Game)