Sex Position Advent Calendar: 24 Nights My Husband Called His Best December Ever
On Christmas Eve, my husband looked at the presents under our tree and told me he didn’t want any of them. Not because he was sad. Because December had already been the best one of his life.
The reason was 24 paper envelopes, one for every day from December 1 to 24, each with a sex position or something naughtier inside.
If I had to pick the one envelope that won December, it was this one. Sit on the Naughty List was his favorite card, and he wasn’t shy about asking when it would come back.
Why a Sex Position Advent Calendar Works So Well
Every morning there’s a little envelope. Every evening there’s a plan.
Nobody has to ask “so... what do you want to do tonight?” because the envelope already decided. You just spend the day thinking about it.
And don’t worry about the math. Almost nobody has sex 24 nights in a row in December. Skip a night, open two tomorrow.
Here are 24 ideas to fill yours, day by day.
24 Sex Position Advent Calendar Ideas (December 1–24)
Side-by-Side 69
This one comes straight from our own advent calendar, and it’s the card I’d put behind door number one.
Classic 69, but tipped onto its side. Not a bad way to open the first envelope of December.
My husband loved it. On paper it’s foreplay. For us it was the whole night, and nobody was in a hurry to move on to anything else.
Doggy Style
Some classics don’t need a holiday makeover. Doggy is one of them.
Bridge to the Naughty Side
This one is mine. Out of everything in our calendar, it’s the card I was secretly hoping to pull.
It takes a little more effort than the first two nights, and it’s worth every bit of it.
If being held in place like that is your favorite part too, we have a whole list of submissive sex positions built around that feeling.
Reverse Cowgirl
She’s on top, facing away, and she sets the pace. He gets the view.
He keeps his hands busy on her hips, or reaches around if he’s feeling generous.
On Her Knees
He stands, she kneels, and she gives him a slow, very generous blowjob. Tonight is all about him.
It’s the card for nights when she just wants to spoil him, or when her period has other plans for her.
Face-Down for Christmas
She lowers her chest to the bed and lifts her ass, and he kneels behind her. Simple, hot, and exactly what a countdown like this was made for.
In our Sex Position Advent Calendar, every day has its own illustrated card with a short description, so nobody has to google “how does this one work?” at 11 pm. You just open the envelope and know what’s waiting.
Lotus
He sits cross-legged, she sits in his lap facing him and wraps her legs around his waist. Then you both slow way down.
There’s not much thrusting in this one. It’s more rocking, grinding, kissing and staring at each other from two inches away. Save it for a cold night with the lights low. It’s one of the most romantic positions.
Scalp Massage
Ten slow minutes of fingers in your hair.
December is exhausting, so this one starts gently. One of you lies down with their head in the other’s lap, and the other works their fingertips over the scalp, behind the ears and down the back of the neck.
Where it goes from there is up to you.
Cowgirl
She’s on top. He can see everything: her face, her breasts, the exact moment she finds the right rhythm.
Christmas Dessert
Whipped cream, melted chocolate, or both. Put it wherever you want to be licked, then take turns cleaning each other up.
It’s oral sex with a dessert menu, and it’s a little silly. The giggling is part of it. By the third spoonful, nobody’s laughing anymore.
Put a towel down first. Learn from my sheets.
Missionary
Yes, missionary. Don’t roll your eyes.
It’s the position everyone calls boring and everyone keeps coming back to. Face to face, his weight on you, kissing the whole time. On a cold December night, it’s exactly right.
If you want to wake it up a little, slide a pillow under her hips or let her wrap her legs around his back. Same old missionary, completely different angle.
Flat on Her Stomach
She lies completely flat on her stomach, legs together, and he lies on top of her and slides in from behind.
It’s the laziest position in the calendar for her and one of the tightest for both of you. His weight pins her down, his mouth is right at her ear, and she doesn’t have to do anything except enjoy it.
It’s perfect for a sleepy weekday night, when you want sex but your legs have already clocked out.
Oral for Her
She lies back, and he goes down on her. No rushing toward sex and no “is this enough?” glances. He stays there until she’s done.
Day 5 was for him. This one evens the score.
The only rule is that he takes his time. Slow, patient, and paying close attention to every reaction. If she has to tell him to stop, he did it right.
She Leans Forward
She’s on top, but instead of sitting up, she leans all the way forward onto his chest.
Now you’re skin to skin, faces close enough to kiss, and every movement rubs her clit against him. He can grab her ass and thrust up from below, or lie still and let her grind until she can’t stop.
It’s slower and closer than cowgirl, and a lot more likely to end with her collapsing on top of him.
Jingle & Sting
Bring a whip or flogger into the bedroom. One of you holds it, and the other gets teased with slow strokes across the ass and thighs.
Start so lightly it’s barely a tap, then build up stroke by stroke. Half of the fun is the waiting between them.
Spooning
You both lie on your sides, he’s behind her, and nobody even has to get out from under the blanket.
It’s the coziest position in the whole calendar. His hands are free to wander to her breasts, her clit and her throat, and his mouth is right at her neck. Slow, warm and very hard to stop once you’ve started.
It also works in the morning, if last night’s envelope ended in sleep instead.
On the Couch
He sits on the couch, and she climbs into his lap.
It’s the position for a night when you never make it to the bedroom. The movie’s still playing, the Christmas tree lights are on, and half your clothes are still on too.
Just maybe check that the curtains are closed.
Oral From Behind
She gets on all fours, and he goes down on her from behind.
If you enjoy it when she takes the lead, our Mistress Challenge Cards give her a whole deck of ways to stay in charge long after December.
Standing Sex
No bed required. She leans back against the wall, wraps one leg around his hip, and he takes her right there.
Foot Massage
After a December of shopping, office parties and standing at the stove, her feet have earned this.
She puts her feet in his lap, and he takes his time with the warm oil, his thumbs pressing into the arches and her heels, one toe at a time. It sounds innocent, and it doesn’t stay that way for long. His hands just keep moving up.
Let it be the whole evening, or open the next card and finish what the massage started.
Your Favorite Toy
Tonight bring out your favorite toy.
Her vibrator, his cock ring, the one you bought together and only use on special occasions. December counts as a special occasion. Use it on each other, add it to whatever position you like, or let one of you watch while the other plays.
No toy at home yet? Then this envelope is a very good excuse to buy one.
Snowfall Finish
She puts on a blindfold, and he finishes across her face. She hears it coming before she feels it.
Yes, our calendar has some properly naughty cards too. Not every card is cozy spooning and foot rubs. If you’d like a December with a few more surprises like this one, the Naughty version of our Sex Position Advent Calendar is full of them.
Ice Play
December is cold outside anyway. Bring a little of it to bed.
One of you lies back, ideally with a blindfold on, and the other slowly traces an ice cube over the neck, the nipples, the inner thighs. Then comes a warm mouth on the exact same spot. Cold, then hot, then cold again, until neither of you can stand it.
Keep the ice moving and on the outside of the body. It’s a tease, not a test of endurance.
Under the Christmas Tree
The last activity, and the best spot in the house.
Throw a blanket on the floor under the tree, turn off every light except the Christmas ones, and unwrap each other first. Any position you like. After 23 envelopes, you know exactly what you both want.
It’s also the reason my husband didn’t care about the presents under that tree. He’d already had his.
How to Make Your Advent Calendar Work
Our calendar has 24 little envelopes, one for each day from December 1 to Christmas Eve, each with its number on the front. Choose the cards, slip one into each envelope, and give them to your partner one by one through December. Leftover cards can go into a few envelopes as a double surprise.
Open It in the Morning
I gave my husband the first envelope at breakfast. By lunchtime he was texting me from work that he couldn’t wait for the evening.
Missed a Night? Use Two Cards Tomorrow
Here’s our honest number: in 24 days, we had sex about 10 times. It’s still more than we usually do, and the skipped nights never felt like failures.
Too tired, too late, too much mulled wine? Leave the card for tomorrow. Most cards combine easily. A massage or oral card leads straight into a position, and two cards add up to one very good night.
Started Late? That’s Fine Too
If you find this on December 5, open the first few over the weekend, or put two cards in some envelopes so you still finish on Christmas Eve. Nobody’s checking.
How to Give It
I didn’t say “we need more sex.” I said, “I want this December to be special for us.” It lands completely differently.
You can hand over one envelope every morning, like I did, or give the whole stack on November 30.
Get the Advent Calendar We Used
If you’d like the calendar we used, our Sex Position Advent Calendar comes in two versions, or both as a bundle:
Every card has an illustration and a short description, and the 24 envelopes come with it. It’s a printable PDF, so you can print it tonight and still have everything ready by December 1.
Toy advent calendars cost well over $150 and are full of things to use. This one is full of things to do, which was the whole point for us.
Printable PDF · Choose Light, Naughty or the Bundle
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